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Managing an unwanted headstone on my new property

aiden_c

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I recently bought a house on one hundred thirty acres and discovered that the previous owner left a custom headstone in a clearing so he could always stay on the land. It is engraved with names and photos of him and his wife and I really do not want it on my property. I am considering having a stonemason grind down the top layer to remove the faces so I can repurpose the granite as a stepping stone or a heavy duty tabletop for my leatherworking. I even thought about returning it to the previous owner by placing it at his new address but I am not sure if that is the best way to handle it. It is strange to have someone else's memorial on my private land and I want to find a respectful but permanent way to get rid of it.
 
Have you checked with a local monument company to see if they can sandblast or resurface the stone so you can use it for a different masonry project?
 
I recently bought a house on one hundred thirty acres and discovered that the previous owner left a custom headstone in a clearing so he could always stay on the land. It is engraved with names and photos of him and his wife and I really do not want it on my property. I am considering having a stonemason grind down the top layer to remove the faces so I can repurpose the granite as a stepping stone or a heavy duty tabletop for my leatherworking. I even thought about returning it to the previous owner by placing it at his new address but I am not sure if that is the best way to handle it. It is strange to have someone else's memorial on my private land and I want to find a respectful but permanent way to get rid of it.

You should verify with a lawyer or your title company if there are any recorded burial easements that might require you to keep the stone in place.
 
You might want to reach out to the previous owner and offer them a deadline to pick it up before you have it hauled away or repurposed.
 
I already talked to the previous owner, and they decided to pick it up. At least I did not spend even a dime to have it removed.
 
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